Discord servers....

GOD , why is it so hard to make online friends, especially on discord servers - ill join a pretty small or kinda big server and the people there are cool and shit but like.. i feel so awkward and out of place??

And its always a mix of the ppl there just knowing other members for longer, so they wont pay that much attention to someone new and just not caring much what i have to say.. 

(i dont know, i really cant tell if its just me cuz im pretty awkward or just a usual experience. Either way, its frustrating..)