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Wow, I haven’t written a blog post in so long, this feels pretty amazing.
I lay here because I can’t sleep so, of course my mind starts to race. I just want to talk about “Dating” in this new age and how hard it’s been. I’ve realized the expectations we have, the walls we’ve built, our egos, our past traumas, etc. has crippled us in so many ways. We aren’t healed, there’s uncontrollable anxiety, ptsd, lack of trust and no longevity. Seems like we date to fill in voids, without fully healing, without fully loving ourselves, without FULLY trusting ourselves to make the right decisions in finding someone; truly dissecting why we continue to make the same mistakes, choosing the wrong people over and over again.
I truly believe that there is love and true commitment for everyone out there, maybe not in this lifetime but in the many we get to experience. True love does exist but how does one find it? Dating multiple people can become very exhausting especially when you continue running into those dead ends. I truly feel the work must be done within first, I feel it’s so important to release all of the old to restore a new, go about things differently, trusting yourself not to backtrack, knowing what you want, not accepting anything less because you KNOW what you deserve and that’s true genuine love, but FIRST. . Heal, love yourself, pray, put God in the center and all shall fall into place in perfect timing.
Also, In your process of healing, I don’t see any wrong in dating. Take your time, move at your speed, set boundaries and always demand respect.
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I’m 30, single mom and this message was truly written for me but I know there’s other women that’ll need to read this. If you’d like, I written 2 books and you can find them on Amazon under my full name (Sabine Saintil)
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