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i don’t get why some people especially women online lately (and maybe some women irl) blame everything on men. maybe it’s because a lot of guys have done really messed up things. maybe they have a reason to be cautious, or even angry. but still, not every guy is like that.
it’s just weird seeing this mindset grow.. like, “women are always right, men are always wrong.” that kind of black and white thinking makes everything feel more divided. like we’re not even trying to understand each other anymore.
today, i saw this video about a woman who helped a homeless guy, and eventually they fell in love. now they’re living a peaceful life together. and honestly, it was kind of sweet. but when i see comments they ruined it. there's some women who commented like “support a man at his lowest and he’ll leave you at his best” or “imagine if he cheats,” and someone replied “ofc he will”. what the actual fog?? why do we look at people being happy and immediately assume it’s fake, or doomed? why do we tear each other down like that?
and the worst part is, some women act like they’ve never done anything wrong, like this stupid mindset just controls them. i don’t even know if they realize it.. or maybe they do, but they don’t want to admit it. because they know they can just blame it all on men.
i’m not defending the bad things men do. i just think that people deserve to be seen as individuals. not categories. not assumptions. sometimes i wish people were softer with each other.
maybe the problem isn’t men or women. maybe it’s the way we’ve been taught to expect disappointment before giving anyone a chance. i just think we lose something when we look at people through fear instead of hope. sometimes, people surprise you and maybe that’s worth remembering.
30/04/2025
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mr. maldevious
you're going places kid. never let that curiosity go away
that means a lot. i’ll do my best to keep growing and stay curious ;)
by bleakangel; ; Report
Dio
I’ve seen similar things from both men and women (high value men, high value women, he’ll always cheat, she’ll always cheat, blah blah blah) and I agree with you. If we keep pushing each other away, something much worse will happen.
Women push away all men so that they don’t get hurt again
The only way to help them out is by a good man like you being patient and kind to them
And of course, the same goes for vise versa.
You gave me a reminder to practice kindness. Thank you.
thank you for this.. honestly, i've tried being patient and kind with someone like that. i gave so much of myself just to understand and help. i stayed, listened, helped, even when it drained me. but it felt like she was blocking her ears for the whole time. like she didn’t even want to try seeing it from my side. it made me feel worse, like all the kindness meant nothing. in the end, i gave up. i couldn’t keep hurting myself trying to reach someone who didn’t want to try to understand.
by bleakangel; ; Report
Just remember that she doesn’t represent women as a whole, she represents herself. In the same way that you don’t represent men as a whole. If someone is giving you a hard time, man or woman, you can leave that person so you have time and energy to find someone that ACTUALLY gets you.
by Dio; ; Report