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Soo... I'm 16 yo girl, I have one more year before I graduate so that pushes me into thinking about my future and what I want to be and etc, all abt that. The problem is that I dont even know what to study, what to choose or what to work for. I lack a lot of motivation and ambitiouness on my life, which of course affects me a lot to the point I even struggle with homework or with completing games for example, bc I can't just focus or find the right time to do it. Even if I try setting goals or something like that I cant help but ignore my own goals and just distract myself. And if someones tries to order me around about activities like those, it only gives me more reasons to not do it because i just reject the idea of following someone.
With this, I've be lacking of sleep and even getting anxious about my future because im so close to end highschool and it just sickens me bc I never thought of my life outside my teenage life. I want help to see what career could fit me more, I've tried asking my parents and friends but the only answer I get is ''choose whatever makes you happy''.
It makes me frustrated since I have the thought that no careers fits my type of life or my personality, and if it doesn't match me, instantly makes me get bored. But i got some dreams like being a model or an actress yet I think theyre way too foolish or hard to reach besides im not very well looking (i guess) or ever acted in my life.
The topic of my own future is sicken me, and i want help the sooner possible so I can have at least a satisfied life after highschool.
I will take any advice!!
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Lain :D
I know u prob know this, but u don't need to go to college. Theres stuff like trade schools, cosmo schools, or going into the field. However, for your specific interests, I'd say maybe look for something in media. While you may not become a model or an actress, working in media like television or social media can help you meet a lot of high up people or people with a lot of experience. Also, maybe sign up for acting classes or make a club at your school for improve or fashion design, something to help u find a crowd with similar interests. However, you still have 3-2 years of school, so try experimenting. You might find something else you're interested in, even if it's not as much like art, graphic design, or writing. I'm turning 17 soon and I need to start applying to colleges. I still don't know what I want to do but I know thats fine. It's not the end of the world even if it seems like everyone is trying to push you out the door into the real world. Take your time and find something you like, even a little bit, but don't be afraid to let it find u .Idk if that made any sense but I hope it helped a little bit ^q^
funki
this is lowk relatable
b33h1v3_n01s3es
i was kinda in the same situation you are in when i was in high school. i honestly couldn't figure out what to study because i felt like i didn't have a whole lot of interest in any one thing. What helped me was starting in something I've always liked and using my first year of uni to try other classes with things i thought i might be interested in. if after your first or second year nothing is sticking out to you, that's okay! you're always allowed to take some time off to figure it out or to try something new!
Whatever you decide to do I'm sure you'll do great! best of luck ;)
_lucky_
I'm Sry for your situation but i can't give you amy advice because i'm into your same situation so we need to keep up <3 (€_€)