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I'VE BEEN LIKE THINKING ABT THIS FOR SO LONG BUT LIKE WHY IS BEING A FUJOSHI SO NORMALIZED??? IDK IT'S JUST SO STRANGE TO ME BUT MAYBE IT'S CUZ I'M A DUDE... BUT THEN AGAIN LIKE I ALSO THINK HIMEDANSHI'S ARE WEIRD ASF TOO... LIKE IDK I JUST THINK IT'S STRANGE CUZ IT JUST FEELS WEIRD WHEN SOMEONE WHO ISN'T EVEN A DUDE IS OVERSEXUALIZING MLM RELATIONSHIPS AND VICE VERSA WITH DUDES WHO OVERSEXUALIZE WLW RELATIONSHIPS. IT'S ESPECIALLY STRANGE TO ME CUZ MOST FUJO/HIME MATERIAL DOESN'T ACCURATELY DEPICT HEALTHY MLM DYNAMICS IM NOT SURE ABT WLW BUT IT'S ALSO PROB THE SAME. ALSO I'M NOT TALKING ABT THE PPL WHO LIKE THE OCCASIONAL WLW OR MLM BASED ROMANCE OR WTV I'M TALKING ABT THE PPL WHO READ/WATCH ONLY STRAIGHT UP SMUT OF MLM/WLW WHEN THEY AREN'T NWLNW OR NMLNM (idc if ur like nb or ace cuz ur non conforming so ur chill). I FEEL LIKE CUZ OF THE NORMALIZATION OF FUJOSHIS IS ALSO LIKE NORMALIZING PORN ADDICTION... ALSO CUZ OF THE FACT IM A QUEER DUDE IT'S ALSO STRANGE SEEING HOW MANY FUJOSHIS ARE OPEN AND STUFF AND IT JUST FEELS WEIRD TO HEAR A WOMAN OPENLY ADMIT THEY LIKE WATCHING GAY DUDES FUCK... ANYWAYS ERM YEAH I DONT LIKE FUJOSHIS/HIMEDANSHIS I THINK THEY NEED SERIOUS HELP CUZ THEY'RE MOST LITERALLY GLORIFIED PORN ADDICTS!!
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𝖹𝖾𝗇𝗂𝗍𝗁!! ₊˚⊹ᰔ
IKR!!! Istg people need to lowkey re-learn their morals and values. Like gang stop talking about how much you like gay men you are a whole ahh woman (This goes for men who talk about lesbians too!!)
ethan ദ്ദി •⩊• )
i will agree, fujoshis, specifically, are very odd, esp when it was back in the 2010s, when it was extremely normal to be the hyper-sexualizing type, except, now its more so, just BL enjoyers trying to reclaim a title that has (and still is) been used to hate on specifically women. so i definitely see your problems with it, its just that the "fujoshis are weird" argument was more applicable to "older fujoshis".. and at least, in the fandoms i tend to run in, yaoi, like specifically gay anime porn, isnt the same powerhouse it was in old fandom, and people nowadays, more likely to call out fetishizers. now i cant really speak on himedanshis, as, quite frankly, i havent seen any, although i feel as though they are signifigantly less fetishizing than fujos, in the sense that Yuri is so severely less popular than yaoi, and it has been until recently..
i definitely agree with your statement of nonwomen watching lesbian porn, that is... extremely weird to me... but ive always seen non men watching gay porn more so as a " i dont have to worry if a woman is being exploited" because the adult industry just loves to do that, AND afab can insert themselve more into gay porn, than amab can into lesbian porn.
by ethan ദ്ദി •⩊• ); ; Report
Maybe you haven't seen as many women oversexualizing gay men, but I feel like it's DEFINATELY just as big of an issue now, specifically within minor spaces. Plenty of women and men read BL/GL, that in itself isn't too bad (If it doesn't include NSFW themes), however it ignores the issue that a lot of yaoi/yuri includes themes that are unsafe for minors or even adults, and can teach people ideals that are simply not okay. As an example: Killing Stalking was INCREDIBLY controversial and led many minors (more women reading I have observed) to think that people treating them that way is okay. Not even mentioning the high rate of fetish content in both Yaoi and Yuri.
Besides the minor portion, Fujoshi's and Himedanshi's cause a big harm to the LGBTQ+ community by contributing to oversexualization of Gay and Lesbian relationships in media, and indirectly makes many people view LGBTQ+ relationships as purely sexual. I don't think these individuals need to be attacked per say, but excusing their behavior when more often than not they KNOW what they're doing it wrong is incredibly disrespectful. nonetheless people who indulge in that media genuinly need help.
by 𝖹𝖾𝗇𝗂𝗍𝗁!! ₊˚⊹ᰔ; ; Report
Unc_Terry
This is facts asf. It's the same shit w/ booktok. Porn addiction is so glorified nowadays.
BRO THANK U LIKE ISTG I FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN GOING CRAZY CUZ OF HOW MANY PPL AROUND ME GLORIFY IT D':
by V0mit_bug; ; Report
Jemesis<3
I agree with you as an ace and a person who got a preview of all this. It’s just weird how ppl normalize this, it’s like ppl fetishized mlm and Wlw relationships… like yaoi and yuri it’s just straight up porn and i don’t understand how ppl are openly passing this around…
The openly passing around is such an issue. I worked at Barnes & Noble and my coworkers would always try to put me on to that shit and it was dead ass always porn.
by Unc_Terry; ; Report
Nah it’s the issue that it’s in barns and nobles
being sold. Ppl are freaks
ik they frfr got physical brain rot
by Jemesis<3; ; Report