Why I hate the Metal community (Or just any music community in general)

I hate the metal community because it's all ways just constant bitching, ppl are always throwing around the word poser the moment they disagree with something, or when their feelings get hurt. I don't care if I'm seen as a poser or not nor do I care to tell someone they are a poser bc who am I to tell them that. I'm not the king of music nor are you. The majority of the metal community loses their mind when someone dares to say they like Deftones or only listen to Deftones (Or a popular nu metal band) just bcs they like it. Like in my opinion I do think you should listen to like two or more metal bands to even call yourself a metal head, but at the end of the day it doesn't affect me. But I hate it when I see fuckers on TikTok complain when their favorite band starts to get popular, I love HIM. I started listening to HIM back in 2021 which is also around the time I started to really get into black metal and goregrind. I get so happy when I get an edit or just a video with the lyrics of a song from HIM, but then I look in the comments to see shit like...

"Welp another band ruined by posers" 

"Oh no its mainstream now..."

"Tiktokified"

I seriously hate this, like I want to get one thing straight with motherfuckers who think like this. You are not special, you are not, I'm not, nobody is. You are not special just because you found a band first, a band that started off a bit underrated and is now getting popular on an app.

"Oh, but its gonna get overplayed and ruined for me!"

No, it's not, songs get over played all the time but that doesn't ruin the song, you are just looking for a reason to complain and to be a stuck-up jerk who just constantly bitches at other ppls fun bcs you have nothing better to do. 

Can't we all just get along? its not that hard.