Just wanted to be honest with myself and say, I’m glad that I’m finally able to break things off with a ‘friend’ of mine I met on pin few months back
I thought they had cool pfp and decided to befriend them
It was good for few days but with time (especially after I mentioned once about my sexuality, they kept on calling me lesbian when I told them ‘no I’m not lesbian, I’m bi’ then brushed it off as a joke)
But it kept getting weirder with them saying slurs like n word, very sexual things they say even if it’s not towards me (that later turned to be the case) and in my mind I kept in justify it as ‘jokes between us’
Sure they offered to listen when I told them like my issues (just two times) but then once again later will say something like ‘I’m going touch you if I saw you in public’ (mind you I did tell them to stop because I don’t like this type of joking til I finally give in and went along with it)
But for almost few weeks now, I’m confident to way I just going leave this friendship after months of it making gut inside me feel uneasy with how much stuff he said
So yeah, what I learned is: if someone went too far, told them to stop because it got you uncomfortable and they didn’t listen
Just leave
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