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I'm gonna fucking loose it I've recently began questionning my gender like 7 months ago or something like that andd wanting to actually be a boy and not liking being a girl butt I'm scared that it's just a phase. And I also hate the idea of being transgender, like I have nothing against those people at all they're really hot and cool but on me I hate it. And I also want nobody to know like around my family and all. 

I think I might cut my hair short again wich is something I've already don in the past but got made fun of for it, so I'm a little nervous eve' though I'm in highschool now so it should be okay ig ? And my current girlfriend also is lesbian and immediatly told it to me when I tried bringing that subject up to her, and... I don't want her to break up with me sooo yeah idk what to do


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Leo

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The advice about being identityless is hella good. I’d like to give ya a little bit of reassurance(?) if it’ll turn out that you are trans.
You don’t have to rush to immediately transition in all ways especially if you’re a teenager. You don’t even have to come out to everyone. Just live your life. Fck around and find out as other commentator said


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Thanks youuu I guess I will. I really didn't expect people to notice my blog and even respond but ayy you're very nice an all, thanks

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Interestelar

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my personal advice is to maybe quit the labels for a while and experiment with just living and being you, whatever "You" is. go identityless, fuck around and find out. don't stress yourself over having to look for something to name yourself unless you feel like knowing exactly what you are would bring a much needed comfort. do you think maybe non-binary seems like a nice route?


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First of all thank you really I guess I will just mess around for a bit and then I'll see, I don't really know about being non binary I always despited that idea (no hate ofc) but I'll guess I'll try to find out and everything. Thank you again

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