BEFORE YOU ADD

some stuff i think fellow spaceheyians should know before adding me or accepting my adds (:

most of the information listed below is either my boundaries or just general things about me one should know prior to privately iming me or adding me... i dont have a dni because i prefer to block and this "fyi" list is ultimately one thats better for both parties

♡ i only accept friend requests from people in my age range (15 - 19) that have it explicitly stated on their profile... im alright with people outside that age range interacting with me as long as its not in private or too persistent

♡ please keep in mind that even though im active i use spacehey with a slower pace since its mentally better for me and because i generally focus on productivity and personal work and spacehey is typically my downtime for when im not doing anything im deeply invested in

♡ i can take a few days or weeks to accept or decline requests (and i always decline requests from priv profiles)

♡ im neurodivergent so sometimes i can struggle with interaction and understanding others or cross boundaries... please know that its never my intention to make you feel uncomfortable and tell me if i hurt you

♡ while im easygoing i can also be VERY block-happy even if i never contact you... if youre blocked by me heres the possible reasons as to why:

• i think youre annoying and disrespectful

• youre creepy and like any normal person i would immediately disengage

• you advocate for a filthy and hateful world

• if you were blocked by me and think you dont apply to the main three reasons that i block then that means you *definitely* apply to one or more of those reasons

♡ im also defriend-happy especially if i struggle to connect with people in any meaningful way (this includes active people on the site too) or if you act in a way where i will instantly block you / if youre more active on other social networks youre on very thin ice (unless i got to know you personally)

♡ im active on blogs / bulletins and i also interact a decent amount with others when ik what to say… i appreciate everyone that engages with me no matter how much or little (:

♡ im a lover<3 so with that being said i dont want to engage with people that wallow in negativity, rant 24/7, happily disrespect the people around them and take pride in hating harmless things

♡ i can be a very loud texter especially when im really interested or happy and if youre easily overwhelmed by that then dont contact me

THERE WE GO (: you may also ask any questions as needed