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i have a boyfriend. i like him a lot, but sometimes it feels like i like him more than he likes me. outside of hanging out with each other (usually only once a week), it feels like he barely messages/talks to me. i've brought it up before and he apologizes for it, but he doesn't make any changes. communication is very important to me and i'd like to have a healthy relationship. what should i do?
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Nathan
I would say that maybe you could try being more direct, Perhaps you might try and give him an ultimatum in regards to the future or your relationship, let him know that you feel like you're giving all 100% and that it seems like he's only giving 30%. Give him the opportunity to realize that you may leave if he doesn't show more initiative
Stan
If a person has less interest in a relationship than his partner, then this is an alarm bell. If he rarely writes, calls and you only go out once a week. This is an indicator of his love for you. Perhaps he has cooled off, perhaps he was never as interested in you as you are in him. Just ask yourself whether this person loves you and whether you see any prospects in this relationship.
_Yokai_
I'm not expert but I would recommend you to talk to him about it once more. If nothing changes maybe move on because it the whole thing might become toxic....