WHY DO PEOPLE CARE SM THAT IM GROWING OUT MY HAIR!!!

i hate it sm atleast 7 people a day tell me on a regular basis "when are you going to get a trim" ive always wondered why people have always cared so much about how others look and their choice when it comes to appearance like someone called me gay for wearing baggy jeans and a top that crops at my belt line?!?!

anyways back to my hair it really isnt even that long it goes to about half way down my ears ig people in the UK just hate on anything that isnt short with a fade.

however their words wont make me get a haircut but its just annoying that i cant have regular conversations with people with my 'long hair' being a topic

rant over :)