I miss having a crush

I miss having a crush so bad, and it's gotten to the point where everyone around me is romantically active in some sort of way, and I feel left out simply because it's been years since I last fancied anyone. And been since freshman year of highschool since I last had an irl crush (I'm 22 now and in college). Almost all my friends are romantically active and now even my younger siblings. 

I'm also just one of those people who needs to be someone's friend before I can develop feelings for them, making it really hard to use dating apps yk, there's so much pressure to be romantic from the second ya'll start talking :/ idk


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viktor

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I could be your crush 🤷


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BeeBeeBooBoo8990

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This is so real. Right now I have a "crush" but I don't know if I actually like this person or if i like the idea of them liking me (if that makes any sense).


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Angelbite XD

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So real oh my gosh. Like I want to have a REAL crush again. Sometimes I'll have one but its not a real one you know? Like I find someone cute but I wouldn't want to be with them, so I don't talk to them or anything. I want to be able to want to talk to someone and get to know them.


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Mars

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Sameee.. I've come to the phase where I don't find anyone attractive anymore.. idk why. life was so interesting back then. But I felt insecure as hell. It's been 3 years. Life's so boring now


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slendersipl

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Bro yea i havent had a crush since kindergarten lmao and whenever someone ditches me for their crush or significant other i just dont get it so i get really mad. I completely forgot what it felt like its so weird.


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xX_KуЯ(D)T.*_xXx

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It's been the same for me for nearly five years; Feels awful, even worse to question the importance of it all; Either way: all the people I know have a significant other and it's to the point where it makes me not wanna show my ''face'' around. It saddens me becouse I can't phisically and/or mentally do much of anything about it and though I'm happy for all couples I'm just left wondering: ''when's it gonna be my turn?''. But here, not trying to write anything profound..- This may be interpreted as meaningless but I do hope you find someone to love.


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Literally!! :/ Like I wanna do all the couples stuff like everyone around me but I haven't clicked with anyone in so long. + I wanna just relax and not care bc being single has it's own pros, but I feel like I'm wasting my early 20s not doing early 20s dating stuff. I also hope you find someone too!

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