ppl w same interests

idk if this comes off rude, but i have a harder time getting along with people who have the same interests as me. its not that im offended that they like the same thing as me, but bc it just makes things less interesting. i get along better w ppl who have opposite interests as me because i enjoy learning stuff about them. i don't mean that by stalking (i promise...😈) i mean that by their interests. perhaps u like traveling and i hate traveling, so u can provide me reasons on why you enjoy it so much so i can understand different perspectives for those who like traveling. its weird cs i love questioning ppl yet im kinda uncomfortable when ppl ask me questions. i do have fun answering questions but when the questions are about me i guess im kinda uncomfortable. that also goes with the stuff i like. i might come off too "self-aware" since im so lonely that i only think about myself and how i am to the point that i think i know myself so well. i dont really know how i really am tho.