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Honestly, this isn't the first time this has happened, I don't know if it's my social circle or this event actually happens, every time someone starts dating, they kind of lose their essence? Like, The person lives for their boyfriend/girlfriend, no longer has time alone and seems to forget their individuality, Am I crazy or does this really happen?
Does dating make you boring?
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FuzzyFox
Yea that happens a lot but that to me is a symptom of a false sense of love. If you get into a relationship out of low self esteem or because you view that as your only goal in life as if life before is not "it" or want to find someone to outsource your problems to etc. then yes, people lose all sense of self and often any and all own opinions, hobbies or interests.
If you ask me, a healthy way of loving doesn't look like that but maybe some get back into a good balance between relationship and sense of self later on. Sometimes it just hits hard at the beginning ^^
Niles
i think it really does too tbh ur not crazy