I NEED HELPPPΒ
So first of all I have 2 frnds, we r pretty much close frnds. It's like we are a trio AND there's one boy and two girls. I always get shipped by few of my frnds from my school bus with my guy frnd js coz we act pretty close ( ik it's a bit obviously we look like we r dating but still I consider him as my brother and he sees me as his sister ). Also many people think we both are dating which is not true and I can't go to every person and tell them the truth. He also likes his girl bsf ( she is not in our trio and she hates seeing me with him and we think that she likes him so I try my best to not be seen with my guy frnd so she doesn't hate me and I don't get shipped with him ). So today we ( some selected students basically Good students were selected to go and meet the Chief minister of our state ) were entering our school bus to go meet the CM and I heard someone say " look these ppl are dating " and I asked them what were the talking abt they said there's this one girl who told me abt you three being in a relationship...like I knew who was that girl right away...the thing is our classes were shuffled this year as we selected some different subjects ( only 2 different lol ) and that girl was from my class who is now in the other class and she is out there spreading false rumors abt me and my other 2 frnd. We don't really know what the rumors are( although we have an idea what those rumors are abt )but tomorrow I will be going to ask that girl's classmates abt what things is she saying abt out trio. I feel like she is doing this out of jealousy bcoz when she was in our class she used to copy me and my frnd ( the other girl in my trio ) and she would try to be ahead of us even tho she was the topper dude yet she would ask alot of things to me then I saw something same with her that told her I love alot ( like some accessories ). So the thing is what my trio has planned is that tomorrow we will go and ask her classmates what rumors she is spreading then we would go to her give her a warning( ngl my other frnd, she said that she really wanna hit her so bad and maybe she will ). Then after warning her we would go straight to her class teacher and tell her everything and request for an apology from that girl in front of the whole class coz I feel like then she will stop ( she is the kind of student that will stop after being embarrassed in front of many people.) But I feel like there might be some one other way from which we can solve this matter.
This is my first week of first year of high school and I don't wanna start high school with alot of drama. My other two frnds were saying that we should prolly hit her which I feel is not the right thing to do coz if we got caught then we would be the once in punishment. The plan I told you abt is the one I made and the one which I might do. But I feel like I should ask for yall's advice coz I just want to end this with peace and I really want to get an apology from her infront of the whole class coz I saw few students talking abt me and my guy frnd they were creating many false stories and I really felt bad so I think I would be satisfied with getting an apology from her in front of those people to whom she told all the rumors to. If you guys think there's anything I should do instead of this plan so please tell me. I also don't want this matter to reach my mother, she is chill but I don't know how she would react on this thing....
I have basically 2 main things on which I want your advice on. The first one is abt the right thing to do abt this matter. But the 2nd one is my main issue. It's that my guy frnd, me and my other frnd, we as a trio are pretty much close. We are like siblings that we needed but I would say that my guy frnd is I bit flirty ( ik he is not there to take advantage of us or flirting with us ). I have been his frnd for many years I know him very well that he is not flirting with me. But I get told he flirts with me but from people who don't know him. I might be wrong but I know very well and I am sure he doesn't likes me coz he is totally crazy over her girl bsf. I also want to ask you guys that how can I get rid of all the shipping I have been getting abt us. Coz my frnd from my bus tease me alot abt him it kills me sm bcoz ik he is like my brother. I just want to know is there any way to get rid of all that shipping and not js for now but I Want to never get shipped with him at all.Β
I don't want his crush to hate me nor I want any one to get the wrong idea of me so I js want to not get shipped with someone I see as a big brother. Ik we should avoid physical touch but idk if that's going to happen any soon. Guys please don't think any wrong thing abt me coz I'm pretty much stressed already also please don't get any wrong idea abt me.
Please I request yall whosoever is reading this that tell me anything abt this even if you give me the silliest advice it would be still helpful ( it might turn out to be.) Thanks alot for reading this ππ«
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Cl3sar` |g0r' >`_<'
hey there. actually this guy's friend is kinda weird. why doesn't she want to start being friends with y'all? anyway, ig u should just try asking her directly why she is acting this way, or offer to join your trio (if no one is against it). just tell her that you see your friend as a brother and not a lover.
but in general I think that if she is a guy's friend, then he should deal with it himself, and not u. I hope you can handle this.
Thanks alottt π this whole situation is confusing and stressful for me and even if I talk to that girl she won't stop I hate her for that but I don't wanna hit her like my other 2 frnd wanna get into a fight with her which I dont think is right. Anyways thanks alot for commenting and your advice
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