Neutral Source Drama

This is from last year but I don’t really experience drama anymore so this is what I got rn!

So, last year, freshman year of highschool my friend group was me and three girls from my middle school and we’re all bi/pan. K, A (my best friend) and L. We also adopted 2 dudes into our group- LO and V. Mostly because A had a massive crush on LO, and I had a crush on V. Buuut so did K, which is something I didn’t find out until L told K that I was crushing on V and K told me that V had been walking her to her classes everyday and that she really liked him. I took it… fine? Context: I dodged the world’s dumbest, douche-iest bullet there because he repeatedly hit on girls INCLUDING ME AND A AND L!! while he was dating her and IN FRONT OF HER… plus he was mid? Idk what I was thinking. Anyway, A and LO start dating right away and they’re like in love and everything. A tends to fall FASTTTT and lovebomb without realizing it because she loves like a psychotic person. LO was also super affectionate, and genuinely a nice guy! A lost her virginity to LO, which I didn’t learn until after they broke up, which is super hurtful because we always promised to tell each other everything (yes, including THAT), and she had told L long before she had told me! I’m over that now, but it hurt really bad at the time and I cried a lot… There was also a shit ton of dramas in middle school that I don’t have time to get into right now. K and A fell out multiple times and I didn’t pick sides becuz they were BOTH at fault all the time, which is what happens when two mentally ill bisexuals hate each other but stay friends. That transferred into this year because K started being friends (again) with a girl from middle school who SA’d A. I was super devastated to not have classes with any of them at the beginning of the year… but now I’m glad because I realize I have my own LIFE now and I don’t have to deal with that… I’m in a happy relationship and I have good CASUAL friends… because I become EXTREMELY attached and dependent to “best friends”. LO got expelled from our school because they thought he sexually harassed some people, and A broke up with him shortly after because he became a lot more hostile and weird to her. L moved to an alternative school and basically ghosted us.

L is also currently dating K’s bipolar alcoholic ex boyfriend, who happens to be one of our mutual friend’s brothers. She started dating him AFTER moving, but it’s still ridiculous after everything we saw and heard about him as a person. I thought L was smarter than that… and more loyal. I dropped the V situation as soon as K told me she liked him. Sure, I was into him still, but I never pursued him even after they broke up.

Anyways, old news but feel free to ask questions!! Sorry for this LONG ass blog lmao!! <3 Bye!