Long Crazy Rant™ about the sexualization of femboys

As a man who dresses femininely, I have refered to myself as a "femboy" on multiple occasions. A few years ago however, I stopped doing this and stopped tagging my photos with the word "femboy" as the tag is now flooded with NSFW content on all social media sites and apps. I am genuinely so tired of my feminine side being fetishized and sexualized. 

I've seen teens get sexualized and slut shamed for wearing skirts as boys and I myself have been treated like a sex object online because of similar reasons. The concept of feminine clothing itself is often over sexualized, just look at the costumes made for girls that are older than 12, most of it is sexual. 

It genuinely disgusts me how dressing in skirts and girly clothes (often kids clothes since I'm generally very short and skinny and that stuff fits me) gets me sexualized. 

I am a boy and girls clothes. Why is everyone so stuck on sex because of that? It's not like this is a new problem either! 

Anyways, I just wanted to rant for a bit since this has been on my mind for a while and I'm tired of it. Feel free to rant in the comments if you want to add something or share your own experiences with others.