So I love my bsf sooo much but recently she talks about boys all the time and I can’t take it anymore 😔
Sometimes it’s funny but we can’t have a conversation without talking about them…
I want to tell her but I’m scared of her reaction and Idk how to tell her
So if you have any advice, I’m interested !!
TY
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alix
honestly, i think the best thing you can do is just talk about it with her. seeing as she's your best friend, you guys should be able to have conversations about any issues you have without either parties getting angry.
just be polite about it! arguments aren't always a bad thing. it's much better to talk things out with people you're close to rather than allowing problems to build up and become worse :P
Tysm for your reply!!
I also think it's the best solution. I know that as my bsf she should understand but I have trouble expressing my feelings and I’m someone who’s quite stressed and paranoid
I'll try to tell her calmly
by Lilichou⋆ 𐙚 ̊.; ; Report
that's so real. i'm the exact same, me and my friend had a big fallout over something simply because i didn't bring up an issue between us in fear of hurting her feelings. we didn't talk to each other from june until october, it was ROUGH. for context, we're neighbours and have almost the exact same timetable at school.
no problem though! that's the best thing you can do. it's like when you lie to someone and the outcome almost always ends up worse than what it would've if you'd just told the truth, but in this case it's about boy talk lol
by alix; ; Report
It must have been so complicated, especially since we were neighbors!
I know the best thing to do is talk. We already had a stupid argument last year, and I really don't want to go through that again. I think I'll take my time to tell him without delay.!!
by Lilichou⋆ 𐙚 ̊.; ; Report