No fun or whimsy??

Why do people act like being ftm instantly means no fun or whimsy? Seriously dude I still like pink and other girly color schemes, I’m still soft in a way, I hang out with girls maybe  even browse the women’s section occasionally I just identify as a man now. Like dude I highly doubt a cis male is all the way masc, I’ve seen it before, like what are you Manataur from gravity falls? Like I still have my nails painted, PINK NOW and I’m dying my hair