how do people get boyfriends? </3

i’m so tired of having all this love to give, but nowhere to send it </3 honestly, i’m way too mentally drained (or maybe just lazy, i wouldn't know the difference) to put in the effort to find someone to date close by.

anyone have tips? help a lonely girl out pls


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Speedline3601

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I feel the most important and overlooked things in love is that the best kind of love are the ones which aren’t rushed at all, it’s something which musters and develops over time, like in situations when you aren’t looking for it and it springs up, those are the best, special kinds of love, it’s not at all laziness…

And the key aspect for holding a romantic partner secure and tightly, make sure to have someone that really respects you and keeps a balance of love and trust and honesty, relationships never work well and healthy at all if there is an unbalance of it (for example, you are pouring more love and effort than your partner is doing)

The advices which are already given are very vital too as well, love is a universal language and many people have different ways of expressing it, so keep it to people you would be happiest with the most, is my advice


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ajmetz

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Noah seems to give really good advice, so I would second a lot of what they've said.

I've yet to find my own special someone, and still wish to share that the most successful attempt so far, was when I met someone I liked through a mutual friend. So that's one way to get introduced, ^_^. It also makes initial trust easier, if it's a friend of a friend - i.e. you know someone who knows them, and therefore validates them, =).


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NOAH

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GETTING A PARTNER ISN'T REALLY EASY <3 I BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD INTERACT MORE WITH GOOD PEOPLE, LIKE PEOPLE WHOS WILLING TO RESPECT YOU AND TRULY CARE FOR U !! THEN IF YOU HAPPEN TO ONE DAY GET REALLY CLOSE WITH ANYONE AND THINK YOU LIKE THEM, YOU SHOULD TOTALLY GO FOR IT <3 LOVE ISN'T SOMETHING TO LOOK FOR OR GRAB (≧∇≦)ノ IT HAPPENS NATURALLY, AND LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL FEELING YOU HAPPEN TO HAVE TOWARDS SOMEONE WHO MADE YOUR WORLD BIGGER AND LIFE LESS HARDER >3< BUT LOVE IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE AND I BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD REALLY TAKE YOUR TIME AND NOT RUSH ^^ SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE AND SUPPORT (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)


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