why is life so boring

These months people are on their phones nowadays, even on conversations or when hanging out. Like why are you like that, live in the moment but don't capture the moment. Social media has made us insecure that we should have this perfect life and if we do see one it makes us insecure of ours which ruins us completely. Everything is a show for people who don't care at all. Everyone is always the same, in social media, they are all identical. There is no personality in anyone these days. And what is these standards of beauty that people are making these days? Everyone is all unique in their own way I don't know why the hell there is standards and not to mention pretty privilege like.. does that makes sense at all? I just feel like I'm living in a black and white life with no color whatsoever and everyone is the same.