First hour on this site

I have spent an hour on this site and I've seen some really cool things the profile customisation is sick there are some really cool communities and it feels so free but my lord reading through the blogs just makes me sad some young people on here really need someone to talk to because some of the stuff they are sharing is really private so I'm gonna share some positive bits of advice!!

Stud's Advices! 

#1 DON'T LIVE FOR OTHER PEOPLE!!

Do stuff for yourself the world is what you make of it not what your friend on discord says do stuff for you and if anyone especially a friend tells you otherwise then they aren't worth your time. 

#2 DO BASIC STUFF!!

Genuinely I did not think some of this stuff would work but going out to a park and taking a walk for 20 minutes is amazing it makes you feel so refreshed. Also stuff like cleaning if you have some wrappers on your desk take a minute and clean them up a clean room is a clean mind. 

#3 DISCONECT YOURSELF!

Sometimes the constant flow of information from sites and apps is too much I have screen time limiters set on TikTok because I would scroll for a few hours then just feel depressed about all the pointless arguments, hate and fighting so I disconnected myself from it I did something else worked on some stuff. If you already aren't feeling good it might seem small put all the arguments and stuff online won't help. 

#4 TALK TO SOMEONE!!

When I say talk to someone I don't mean post it publicly or message your discord friend I mean contact a professional as long as you don't say something about you or someone else being in imminent harm everything is confidential and you can work on yourself and I know this help isn't available for everyone and I know there are some really bad professionals out there but if you keep fighting you will get the help you need and you won't regret it.

#5 YOU HAVE TIME!

Lots of people feel that everything is happening so fast they get stuck in their own head and its like a stop watch is going down but it really isn't slow down, breathe, take your time and look at things from other viewpoints if you are really struggling slowly but surely try and help yourself, realise that somethings wrong but try to make it better ignoring the wound doesn't heal it you need to tend to it set yourself goals each week try to get little things done work your way up don't get stuck in a low place and stay there keep climbing you can make it to the top!

That is all for now!

I hope you enjoyed my writing and I hope it can help someone! I'm not perfect I don't know everything and I probably don't know you, you don't need to listen to my advice but it wouldn't hurt giving it a go have a great day!