I believe in forgiveness ! (Advice)

Now this can either be applied or not depending on the situation and read it as you please! 


I am usually referred to as a optimistic person and I never titled myself as a forgiving person. However, I have always forgave people no matter what they've done to me. I have always believed that everyone deserves forgiveness despite what they have done to me. I've been backstabbed, disrespected and even been used for people's advantage several times and I've always forgave people. Why? Because it makes me feel somehow nicer. As much as it sounds hard to believe, I've always forgave people or let the problem and conflicts slide away as quick as possible for both me and the other's comfort, especially if it's my friend. 

Seeing the other smile once I say "it's okay" or "I forgive you" is a nice feeling, even if it their actions hurt me. I was never a person who bursted out my anger but rather than someone who would think in silence and finally talk and forgive them once I'm okay ^^ 

Most people might think this is a toxic mindset of mind and I've been told this mind you. 

"What if they do it again?"

"What if they take advantage of you?"


The only response I usually say is, let them! It'll be in heir own conscious and I believe karma will get them. From my experience, everytime I forgive somebody, worst things happen to them without me wishing it. 


So reader, if you're still with me, the next time somebody does you wrong, forgive them. Not for them, but for your own peace. Let karma deal with them! 


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