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I have feelings for this guy online, he lives soooo far away like thousands of miles away...and I think it's stupid for me to fall in love with him. I feel stupid for having feelings for him, I shouldn't have feelings for him in the first place! I shouldn't have feelings for anyone anyway! I just need to live alone, I need to live a zero romance life, no matter how much I yearn for love...I WANT someone to share my feelings with, to go to bed together, to share my stupid little hobby, to talk about my stupid little interest. But at the end it's all stupid, everything about me is stupid. I can't let my wants get in the way of my needs.
Falling in love online
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xX_salem.krueger_Xx
hello!!
i was in a long distance relationship myself, it was SOOO difficult, and i don't want to compare or say u have it any worse of course but we had only 130 km away from each other so it was kinda less difficult... but!!!! my dear friend is in a relationship as well, online, and that guy is FROM THE US!!! (we're from Europe) so i promise it is possible!
me and my lovely gf were together for 4 years only online and met a couple of times when it was possible, both of us still studying and shi, but once we could, she moved in with me and my dad!! now we're celebrating 8 years together and it's wonderful, so please, don't lose your hopes or feel guilty for feeling anything towards him, i'm sure if it works out, it's gonna be wonderful. even IF it wouldn't last, there's no saying you can't try again and again to find what you wish for in life :)
wishing the best with how the situation goes on, hope you both are happy however it works out <3
ajmetz
How do your wants and needs differ?
I too have loving feelings for an online penpal. They do not appear to be reciprocated, and even if they were, I presently have no ability to travel to them, so how silly is it? And yet, the feelings are true. =). They like me as a friend, and nothing more. So we have a loving friendship at least. At least I hope that's what it is, lol.
You may find it interesting to read up about Lacan's object petite a, =).
Or perhaps if your wants and needs differ, you are referring to Hedgehog's dilemma, as demonstrated in an episode of Neon Genesis Evangelion? Although - also more readily explained in a wikipedia entry.
୧ ‧₊˚ Angie 🥩🦴 ⋅
talk to him about it, I hope you live at least close because web dating is complicated