losers aren't normalizedd!!!

WE NEED TO NORMALIZE PEOPLE BEING STRAIGHT UP LOSERS! By this I don't mean involuntary celibates which are a whole community of their own who have already gone beyond just being a bit strange rather making their entire life about this obsession with being alone, I just mean a normal person who doesn't have as many friends as others or has it weird interests that aren't inherently harmful, doesn't eat the healthiest diet but doesn't necessarily binge eat junk food, doesn't go outside very much but still manages to meet up with a few friends that they have. I feel like we have all normalized two kinds of people which is either someone who is beyond fixing like an involuntary celibate or a perfect it girl. Especially online. Why can't we just normalize people who are strange and weird without putting a whole spotlight on them and/or making them seem worse than they are?