update

In my previous blog i wrote about my misgivings for my relationship. Things were looking rocky, we went no contact for what felt like a long time. Until out of the blue he texts me a long LONG message about how he's not stable and doesn't have his life together and all of these things i was previously aware of, sure they're not good qualities but they're fixable i always believed he can change and become a more adjusted person. it was his outlook on growth that made me like him. And when he came back to me he was sensitive and vulnerable i realized my tough love was getting nowhere and who was i really? To decide tough love was the solution without offering him tenderness first. I'm really glad I've been given a second chance to show him kindness. 

It's too early to call what we have love. But I hope you have a feeling that you hold so dear too.

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