This was supposed to be a post about keeping warm in the cold

I am still going to post the pics I took layering clothes, and our snowman. The day of I can remember layering up with 2 pairs of leggings, a long sleeved shirt, one of those one peice pj sets on top of that, then a hoodie and a pair of sweats, all under a jacket. It's really warm, but makes going to the bathroom really hard and as we all know it's rough to have to pee in a hurry coming in from the cold as is. 

Well, this is where our story takes a turn and I am not going to go into real specifics, maybe I will later if anyone wants to know, but the night of that day and now, I became single. 

He didn't leave me, I left him, but it doesn't change the fact it's pretty devastating. We were planning to move, I work from home and now I am going to have to try and make his income TO move. I can do it I'm sure, it's going to be hard but I am pretty motivated out of spite. 

For the last few days I have sorted through my thoughts while watching Harvey Birdman attorney at law for background noise. I've come to the conclusion, as my thought had already been that maybe we weren't compatible, that as bad as it sucks it's for the best. 

I have to keep writing. I can't let myself quit on this. Right now is probably the most crucial time, so it's easier to check my thoughts. 

any words of encouragement is very appreciated, and I hope you all are well while reading this.