Come on, I've always had the personality of a "well-behaved girl from the corner who is afraid of everything" and this since childhood has caused me to suffer a lot of bullying. But in reality, I just want to be the strong, brave, explosive girl with a lot of personality and weird tastes! But in military schools, it doesn't help that much with visual style issues, But personality is something I can do, I've been overcoming shyness for years, and I want tips to show the way I want to be and my true personality, the personality of a fucking Crazy bitch who doesn't care about other people's opinions and beats up idiots! Pls help me with this

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Hello, so dealing with personality issues. Finally studying all that sociology/philosophy/psychology can pay off.
This issue is fairly simple to overcome, but fairly hard to do. You just gotta not believe in classifications. The world wants everyone to fit in little boxes, sorting people here and there. So just don't call yourself anything for one. And two, ignore people's opinions, while there is constructive criticism out there, when you can seperate good advice from opinionated nonsense, you got it made. Then proceed to just ignore the opinions.
Heck, it's worked for me. I'm a Christian who never went on social media or tiktok, who grew up on cartoons no one else has even heard of. Sure, it may be hard at first, but you just got to find your group of weirdos and just accept the fact that you're unlike the people that are around you. No one is the same, so why should anyone try to be. You get what I mean?