I’m talking to a guy and he keeps saying that he wants to come see me and spend time with me , but everytime we make plans to spend time together something always prevents him from coming and seeing me. and he never shows up when he’s supposed to and he waits until after I’ve wasted half a day waiting on him to let me know that he’s not coming. And I mean i understand that things come up and plans change but I’m frustrated because, I don’t feel like he’s ready to be with me, and he just doesn’t want to say anything because he knows that it will hurt me. if he’s not interested in me he needs to let me know so I don’t wanna waste my time on someone that doesn’t want a relationship, and someone that is stand me up continuously. Am I wasting my time??
** this isn’t the first time he’s done this he’s done this multiple times since we’ve been talking , and it’s always some kind of lame excuse **

Wasting my time
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Danny
Being completely honest I’d say he’s dragging it along because #1 you provide him company when he doesn’t have anything else to distract him or take up his time so instead he uses you for that and #2 he’s just gonna drag it out until he find someone closer to him or until you and it. If I were you I’d cut thing off to make things easier on you. It sucks to cut people off like that but he’s not doing you any good :(