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Please, if anyone is reading this....can you give me some advice?
...I haven't told anyone this, but....well, I like one boy. We've been through a lot together and during that time...I realized that I'm in love.
But! My friend found out about this and insistently tells me not to think about confessing my love to him - she says that if I do...I'll deeply regret it.
But...I like him so much. Besides, we have a common hobby - why can't I give myself a chance for reciprocity?
Well, I had a fight with my friend. She doesn't want to talk to me...
I don't know what to do...
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Cosmo
i would say that this friend also have feelings for the same boy and wanterd it for her/himself
Cosmo
i would say that this friend also have feelings for the same boy and wanterd it for her/himself
Crazy Cane
Go up to the person you fell in love with and say,
YOU: "I was wondering if you can join in on an experiment. The choice is freely yours and there is no pressure. No matter if you say yes or no to the experiment I will always have your back. There is no sneaky intentions on my part."
BOY: "Urrmmm...what's on your mind?"
YOU; "Can we do an experiment on love together and see if this is going to work? Remember this is only a test. There is no obligation. If the experiment works, cool. If the experiment doesn't work, that's cool too."
BOY: Do I have time to think about this?
YOU: Of course! :) Take all the time you need.
BOY: Sure. :)
This is just an example scenario. Either way I wish you guys the very best and I hope you and your friend can patch things up and that she would acquire a deeper understanding of things here. I think there is a deeper reason why she is tripping. If you are in a relationship, she's afraid of losing you and that you guys would be not be keeping in touch so much.