just tell me

ARE PEOPLE JUST UNCAPABLE OF LETTING ME KNOW WHEN THEY DO STUFF??? why is it so hard for you to tell me when you're going to france for a week omg. "oh btwb tomorrow we are going to bali pack your bags" WHAT. JUST TELL ME LIKE A WEEK IN ADVANCE JESUS. "come on we're going to a restauraunt" i am not going anywhere unless you let me know at least a week prior so i can make space for it in my schedule, find something to wear and mentally prepare myself for a social interaction. YOU CAN'T EXPECT ME TO JUST GO WITH YOU ON A TRIP IF YOU TO TELL ME THE NIGHT BEFORE WHY IS THAT NOT COMMON SENSE PLSSSSSS. OR WHEN PEOPLE DISSAPEAR FOR A WEEK AND I CALL THEM ASKING WHERE THEY WENT AND THEY TELL ME THEY'RE IN FRANCE. I THOUGHT YOU DIED??????