"Be yourself"

what then, when you reflect about who you actually are and all you notice are the flaws, fears, and weaknesses you wish weren't there?

no one talks about that part, everyone just says "be yourself", as if the world would simply love you as you are, 

hell, you yourself won't love yourself as you are.

nobody told you that being yourself doesn't always feel good, did they? you figured it out by yourself.

you shift your being, not only to fit with people, but to not feel bad about not fitting.