“Friends”

Intro:

 I’ve had a lot of “friends” this year and I have to say there is a difference between “friends” and friends. Now before I dive into this topic I just want to say that if you relate to this please reply to this blog and if you don’t you can just scroll away.

Friends:

Now everyone knows what friends are. If you don’t  then idk what to tell you. I’m just kidding. Friends are people you can rely on and can trust with all heat. The people that will always have your back. The people you can be your self around. The people who don’t judge you. The people that can joke on you and you joke on them you laugh together instead arguing. I’m not saying that friends like this don’t have problems I’m saying if you can’t do these things with your friends you probably shouldn’t be friends with them. 

“Friends”:

I’m pretty sure we all know what the type of friends are we’ve all had them even if we think we didn’t. If not let me tell you. These type of friends are the ones that just whisper around you and look at you and then laugh. These type of friends are the friends that ridicule you about everything you’re proud of. They don’t make jokes they joke on you disrespectfully. They talk about everything you as if your not in front of them. And when you do something wrong they act explode and tell you everything that’s wrong with you and don’t tell you as soon as you do it. The thing is you can try to get out of the friendship but they probably gaslight and gaslight and gaslight you till you regret your decision but once you realize you’re actually done you don’t care.

Conclusion:

In conclusion,I decided to write this just to see if would help some of you. Before you say something like “you young people and all your problems” this can also happen in your adulthood even if you don’t realize it. I know this may seem a little dramatic but I just wanted to let people with “ friends” that you are not alone and this is a safe place to talk about what your “friends” do and get advice.

Sincerely, 

Andrea