Recent Break/Breakup?

Last Wednesday me and my partner had a talk about how they don’t rlly like how I was smoking weed. This isn’t the first the topic had come up but before I started again I did make sure it was okay with them first. I will admit I was getting carried away and starting to get high everyday which was a turn off for them which is perfectly understandable which brings us to last Wednesday. After they informed me how they felt I told them I was gonna stop for to better myself because I was genuinely worried about my health as I still am and I also did not wanna ruin the relationship. With how I phrased it they had the idea I wasn’t going to smoke at all anymore and go straight cold turkey but the next day I took two hits of my friend’s cart just so that when I start sobering up the withdrawal process isn’t as hard as it could be. I wasn’t aware they thought I was going cold turkey so the next day they didn’t text me much but when they did they asked about the whole misunderstanding and I explained how I took the two hits just so that the withdrawal from being high everyday doesn’t hit as hard as it could. Once they came over they told me they wanted a break because of how everything felt in the moment and it was sort of a deal breaker, there was other issues that weren’t as big as this one but nothing they would end the relationship over. I’m not saying that their opinion is invalid and I would never say that about them. But, we didn’t talk much about it before then and when we did I initiated to stop smoking weed immediately because they know how much I love and don’t wanna lose them. I just think if it was a little more straightforward beforehand and if I was more specific on how I was gonna stop the relationship wouldn’t be in shambles rn. We have talked since and they did notice that they’re very quick to go for the break instead of talking it out but I guess because of how they felt their mind was already locked in on us taking a break.

I’m 100% willing to admit when I’m in the wrong which I was because I should’ve not have been smoking as often as I was and I should’ve been more specific when I told them about me quitting weed. But, am I wrong for thinking that the decision making for the break was pretty rushed and out of the blue? I genuinely feel kind of just shat out of their life lowkey.

(I will update here on whether this was a break or a breakup once we figure that out)