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so i fumbled another relationship . its ok . its whatever . nooo i totally dont care . im so happy for you and your girlfriend im so serious. why am i crying? no im not thats a joke . haha . IM GOING TO DIE!!!!!!!!!! ummmm so my crush of a few months had just gotten a girlfriend and i wasnt sure if shes joking or not but NO THEYRE NOT they kissed in front of me ... ummmmmm putting the l in lgbt haha am i right Sorry anyway ummmmmm i kind of cried my eyes out and im too tired . this is like the third love interest i fumbled by being too shy ,,,,,,,,, yeah i think i need to change myself a little not sure how but . yeah ,,, im really sad . does anyone have any tips on how to move on because im so sad . really sad . Yeah
PUTTING THE L IN LGBT
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eviexx
I TOTALLY GET THIS!!!! ive been in the same situation as u MAAANY times because of my fear of rejection. Im now much better with channeling that fear elsewhere.
if you're struggling also because of fear of rejection I'ma tell u what III did
I literally had to REWIRE my brain to not think the way I sue to think and it takes a lot of work and practice but you'll get there eventually. If you like someone and you think they're cute but you're too afraid to tell them try thinking about WHY you're afraid. think about all the things that's stopping u and write them down. THEN think about all the things that could go RIGHT. so then with all the things that could go wrong thing about how meaningless it is. like obviously the main thing that could go wrong is boom, they don't like u back and they reject you. So? You're (I'm assuming) very young and there will be many more people who come along that you might like. And before you confess to the person, try to be their friend first. get to know them very well and let them get to know you. and then you'll be able to kind of assume what their answer is going to be if you ask them out. that way you either have a new friend who you have a small crush on which will eventually go away OR boom new girlfriend/partner. sorry if none of this makes sense I'm at school right now and I'm not really thinking this out I'm just rambling...
sorry its so long too like I said lol I'm rambling... hope I helped sorry if not... I wanted to go in more detail of how I got out of that mindset BUTTTT like I said I'm at school I don't really have the time for that lol.
honestly i tried to do that with this crush, but everytime i wanted to confess i just got wayy too nervous T_T shes become my close friend and im happy for her but like ... :( WORST THING IS I DEFINITELY HAD MY CHANCE and yeah i think i do need to rewire .. if i get a crush again ill use the advice of writing it all down .. thank u !! <3
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