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met two friends that i lost contact two years ago

hey hey! this is my first blog and i'm still new to spacehey and lowkey just wanted to try writing random blogs like whats happening (cuz there isn't anyone irl ik here lmao) and i just like writing in general.

maybe what i'm gonna write is smth like me asking advice? idk well its just some life update dumping but before i start just some preinformation: me and those two person were in a friendgroup with another person and there was a time in 2023 when i had some problems with adapting to a new place and all which made me feel stressed and i started ghosting the friendgroup (also because they started to ignore my feelings for some reason) suddenly cancelling the next time we planned to hang out and they snapped really bad and started cursing at me and all over snap.

(btw i will describe one friend i kept longest contact as person A and the other as person B)

of course i blocked all of them only having contact with one of the friend (person A) from the group because they didn't have to do with anything from the fight. over time i forgot the incident and just moved on. (lost contact with person A because i started to feel uncomfortable but there wasnt much drama)

now to the main part:

So i went to a concert in town and it was a band I discovered thru my friend (A) that I didn't have any contact to anymore since like summer 2024. I thought it would've been possible if they were there but i wasn't thinking much of it.

I went to the location with another friend i just made (the night was good we both had fun) and when we were waiting in line i heard a familiar voice and i was like "hold up i know this voice". when i turned it was actually one of the person (B) i used to be friends with, which gave me anxiety the moment i noticed. after that i saw they were with person (A) waiting in line. 

I acted like i didn't notice but to my suprise they saw me and when me and my friend got inside they both came up to me and were talking to me which was super awkward. They were like "omg hey!! we noticed you and were like omg is this dinoth?? How are you doing!!" (person b).

now yes they actually came up to me which suprised to me because i thought they were still mad at me and disliked me still but i guess not. after that we talked alot (despite me having almost no voice because of a cold) and they were still the same people i knew from two years ago, (person A) actually became more open. when the concert ended i went the same train they did and all which wasnt much of a hassle and it was chill.

now my question is should i became friends with them again? maybe the fight was like a little too childish and i should get over it but it all still feels a little bit weird. tbh my first plan was to just not make any moves and let them reach out to me first.


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