my love languages (as far as i remember) are words of affirmation and quality time (so i like receiving it and doing it (that sounded weird anyway))
i was preparing some gifts to one of my friends and i was like "hmm.. this is interesting.." because giving gifts its not really one of my love languages (although i do enjoy it), but if u think abt it it makes sense bc we cant see eo irl (soon fr), so i have to find other ways to celebrate stuff right? and while its not a physical gift, i feel happy while doing it yk?
would i like to buy gifts to people? yes, but obvs i cant buy everything (me rich when) but ig i like to give meaningful gifts. yes sure everthing can be meaningful if u want it to be but like i like giving stuff that ppl prob would never buy it themselves but they would like to have it yk??
(also trying to see if i can get it b4 her bday but its always out of stock #helpme)
anwys js a silly rant
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FuzzyFox
That's cool, I actually have the same love languages. So I don't value gift giving but I like to draw my motivation to go and buy some from the fact, that searching for something for other people is a lot of fun and they always appreciate it so much. The act of giving a gift itself is a form of quality time and a kind of affirmation without words, so I can see how that would be a beautiful gesture for others :)