Difference between strangers & friends.

I will put this out for those who didn’t look back nor realise.

Sometimes strangers can be much more truthful than your own friends despite you & the stranger not knowing each other as much.

Yes. It’s very risky to trust people easily & I don’t recommend that, you just never know who hides beneath all of the kindness. I, myself, don’t trust people as much not even strangers, just only like to observe so I catch on how the person communicates, what their intentions are or how they think & feel about things. What I’ve noticed that strangers tend to give you an uplift more than your own friends.

Now for clarification about myself: my ass don’t have that many friends, I dislike having friends (especially friend groups), it’s too much. I only keep small amount of people in my life whom are busy people with responsibilities that I talk to & go. But friends no, there’s always something happening with friends. You just can’t lay on your couch for 5 mins without somebody having to bring something negative onto the table. I know other people’s views with friendship is completely different from mine due to completely different experiences (yes) it’s just me who prefer not to have a lot of friends due to horrible cycles of suffering with certain people.

Now, strangers are absolutely different from your friends, they’re unknown to you till you see how they treat you compare to people who you knew for years. They will be grateful for your achievements & be much more proud of your work compare to friends, some friends I’ve took notice in other people’s friend groups are the most envious people I’ve seen when one person in the group achieves smth. That’s how problems can start without that one person’s knowledge on what caused such chaos & that person gets the blame for their own friend’s envy. This is smth I’ve observed & see it happen, knowing how (very) common that happens. Theres no such thing as “all of my friends are proud of me” when there will be one or two people in the group who will have smth against you without your knowledge & it’s in the shadows always, nearly impossible to detect it at first sight unless you’re somebody who has strong intuition that something doesn’t feel right about one of the people in the group.

But I wouldn’t say “rely on strangers more” no, don’t do that since some strangers you meet could be 10x worse than your own friends, who really knows. I’m just pointing out the differences & the behaviours compare to people you don’t know & people you knew for years.

It’s interesting..