Standards!?

Hello??? What kind of world do we even live in anymore?

It's unfortunate that I'm being so spiteful rn but I really need to get this off my chest and get your opinions on it...

Do I have unreasonably high standards for not wanting people to go offline between each DM when I respond right away?
Do I have unreasonably high standards for wanting people to actually answer my questions instead of answering with "idk" or outright ignoring them?
Do I have unreasonably high standards for wanting people to read my messages instead of skimming over them and then having a slue of completely avoidable misunderstandings later?
Do I have unreasonably high standards for wanting people to have manners and mutual respect of boundaries?
Do I have unreasonably high standards for wanting people to have a interests/a personality aside from their identity/labels? Like, writing, drawing, traveling, tinkering, whatever? (you can't possibly ONLY be a furry and do nothing else with your life, right?)

Please tell me I'm not being unreasonable...

I just feel like a lot of people nowadays are being raised in such isolation that they genuinely don't know how to interact with each other. And of course I feel for those people and empathize with them, I used to be one myself, but I feel like I've done enough already and I kinda just want to... live on and move past the whole "i can fix her" mentality. I realize now tho that I surround myself with those people. It's time to make some changes. (he says, on spacehey)