vent, also need help haha

(TW: ed talk) hi guys, im in college and i do tons of classwork. my grades are pretty good but omg deadlines are pissing me off and then ofc i have difficulty making friends on campus. there is a group of 3 girls and 2 boys that i sorta talk to in between classes, but every time i think they're becoming my friends, they never invite me to go places when they plan stuff in front of me. its kinda sad but i don't wanna intrude on their pre-existing circle. yk? anyways, after classes i immediately go to work, which is an easy job (I also work with my bf so that helps) but after we go home im just too tired to cook and it is late so i usually just eat junk food or go get fast food which is so bad for me. but its quick and I'm trying really hard to save money and eat better so i don't gain weight and have health issues. any tips on trying to fight the urge to spend money/eat unhealthy?? i wanna be skinnier and healthier but its hard (Im a semi-recovered bulimic, btw) so maybe one of yall could help me with fighting binge urges and how to actually get and stay committed to my weight loss/health journey? maybe give me tips on how to just talk to those people at my college? if not that's cool I just needed to vent anyways... thanks guys BYEEEE <3 ☆


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Sounds like you’ve got a lot on your plate, and I get why all of that would be exhausting. College is rough enough without feeling like you’re stuck in between friend groups and dealing with food struggles on top of it. With the people at school, I’d say keep being friendly but also try branching out, maybe there are others in your classes who’d be more open to new friendships. As for eating better without breaking the bank, meal prepping might help, even if it’s just simple stuff like overnight oats or grabbing healthier frozen meals instead of fast food. And since you’re semi-recovered, just be gentle with yourself, sustainable habits matter more than quick fixes. You’re already aware of what you want to change, and that’s a solid start. You got this! 💖


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