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That if i feel as if someone doesn't like me i remove my self out of their life? like not in a haterish way but in like a we don't resonate and the energy isnt flowing ill just move on , take my self off you social media and just slowly disconect. I feel like people take it so personal... But faking connections is so draining, personally THAT offends me more . I am not into that whole pretending we are resonating with eachother to be frank its okay if you dont vibe with everyone in my opinion, IVe always felt that way , go where you are appreciated for your truest self.
is it weird?
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Raquel🌈
Absolutely not. You're doing the right thing by doing that.
Take it from me, I've always made the mistake of sticking around because I thought it was normal for my close friends to dislike me. I was so used to it so it felt normal. Once I got fed up with it, I also began to ghost and unfriend my "friends". Sure, some of them made a big deal out of it but that's the thing, why are they making a big deal out of a friendship they don't even want to be a part of? And that's because they want some sense of control over you and I think that's freaking weird.
But that's just my experience, haha keep filtering out the bad people and life will be grand!
Thank you so much for commenting, i truly feel so dramatic at times but youre so right!im so sorry you went through that with friends , i had the same thing happen to me, its hard and really hurtful to find out that your close friends where just lieing. I think having this happened to me has made me become a bit of a loner and set boundaries with people. I rarley use the word "friend" to label people around me
by RiO<3; ; Report
Yup! Right there with you. Always trust your intuition and your gut when you feel the people around you are acting different because you will suffer in the long run. For the people telling you that you’re being dramatic are probably going through the same issue and they don’t even see it from what I’ve witnessed. My sister even tells me “you write off on people really easily” and I say “yeah bcuz they believe just because I’m really nice, they think they can walk all over me”.
I’m really sorry that these things have made you alone but imo, it’s way better to be alone than to be around someone who makes you feel twice as alone. Please keep setting up boundaries don’t let it discourage you bcuz I promise you, someone will be your friend for who you are :)
I’m also the same way with the “friend” label but for me it’s the “best friend” label. I can have friends sure but I don’t use the best friend label loosely cuz I almost never have one x) but one day it’ll come! <33 keep going with the boundaries and show people you are NOT a doormat! <3 you got this!!
by Raquel🌈; ; Report
Omg! yes like don't take my kindness as stupidity or weakness ! People think kind is either mean fake or stupid (im guessing thats the frequency theyre operating out of when they're being "kind") i even some what cut off my family lololl I truly believe energy doesn't lie! i look at this as an act of self love in a way . Yeah letting people walk all over me once is a mistake but 2, 3 , 4 times that comes as a choice at the end. Its so refreshing to hear someone understand the feeling and it not being labeled a dramatic.
There is things you can let go but somethings you must hold accountable. YESS i never use the term best friend either its used so much and honestly very few stay best friends. I do believe there are chances to meet people and genuinely connect, but those are as rare as seeing a shooting star ;D<333
by RiO<3; ; Report
Omg! yes like don't take my kindness as stupidity or weakness ! People think kind is either mean fake or stupid (im guessing thats the frequency theyre operating out of when they're being "kind") i even some what cut off my family lololl I truly believe energy doesn't lie! i look at this as an act of self love in a way . Yeah letting people walk all over me once is a mistake but 2, 3 , 4 times that comes as a choice at the end. Its so refreshing to hear someone understand the feeling and it not being labeled a dramatic.
There is things you can let go but somethings you must hold accountable. YESS i never use the term best friend either its used so much and honestly very few stay best friends. I do believe there are chances to meet people and genuinely connect, but those are as rare as seeing a shooting star ;D<333
by RiO<3; ; Report
Omg! yes like don't take my kindness as stupidity or weakness ! People think kind is either mean fake or stupid (im guessing thats the frequency theyre operating out of when they're being "kind") i even some what cut off my family lololl I truly believe energy doesn't lie! i look at this as an act of self love in a way . Yeah letting people walk all over me once is a mistake but 2, 3 , 4 times that comes as a choice at the end. Its so refreshing to hear someone understand the feeling and it not being labeled a dramatic.
There is things you can let go but somethings you must hold accountable. YESS i never use the term best friend either its used so much and honestly very few stay best friends. I do believe there are chances to meet people and genuinely connect, but those are as rare as seeing a shooting star ;D<333
by RiO<3; ; Report
EXACTLY!! Yeah I also encourage cutting your family if they aren't treating you right either. I can't afford to cut my family but the moment i can afford it, they're gone for good! x) Therapy really helped me in opening my eyes to how people are, and my sisters never really had therapy which is why they think its okay to people please at unreasonable moments and let ppl walk over them. NOT ME! NOT US!! :D Yet we're the a-holes! haha
And that's good! Only the most deserving gets the best friend label! B) haha and they are pretty rare unfortunately :') but we got this! and yeah that's true if you're constantly letting them walk over you, you're enabling them at this point x_x thankfully that's not us B) hehe!
by Raquel🌈; ; Report