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𝕀 𝕙𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕒𝕤 𝕒 𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕤 𝕘𝕦𝕪

𝕀'𝕞 𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕖𝕥 𝕒𝕟𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕧𝕒𝕝𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕤 𝕒𝕝𝕠𝕟𝕖! 𝕎𝕙𝕠 𝕨𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕘𝕦𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕖𝕕?

𝕀 𝕤𝕨𝕖𝕒𝕣 𝕀 𝕞𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕘𝕖𝕥 𝕕𝕖𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕝𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕟 𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕪 𝕗𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕤 𝕒𝕕𝕧𝕚𝕔𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕤𝕖𝕥 𝕦𝕡 𝕒 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕗𝕚𝕝𝕖 𝕠𝕟 𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣/𝕓𝕠𝕠, 𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕀'𝕞 𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕪 𝕤𝕦𝕣𝕖 𝕚𝕥 𝕨𝕠𝕟'𝕥 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕜 𝕞𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕓𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕟 𝕥𝕣𝕪𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕠 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕤 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕜𝕖𝕕 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕞𝕖 𝕤𝕠 𝕗𝕒𝕣.

𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕔𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕙𝕖𝕕 𝕠𝕟 𝕒 𝕗𝕖𝕨 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖 𝕔𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕟 𝕞𝕖, 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕚𝕥 𝕒𝕝𝕨𝕒𝕪𝕤 𝕖𝕚𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣 𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕤 𝕚𝕟 𝕚𝕘𝕟𝕠𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕗𝕖𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 𝕠𝕣 𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕓𝕚𝕘 𝕗𝕦𝕔𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕕𝕚𝕤𝕒𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕣.

𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕔𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕒 𝕃𝔼𝕊𝔹𝕀𝔸ℕ 𝕥𝕠𝕦𝕔𝕙 𝕞𝕖 𝕚𝕟𝕒𝕡𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕡𝕣𝕚𝕒𝕥𝕖𝕝𝕪 𝕕𝕖𝕤𝕡𝕚𝕥𝕖 𝕜𝕟𝕠𝕨𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕀 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕒 𝕘𝕦𝕪. 𝔸𝕤𝕚𝕕𝕖 𝕗𝕣𝕠𝕞 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕗𝕒𝕔𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕚𝕥 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕦𝕟𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕦𝕒𝕝, 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕓𝕦𝕤𝕚𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕤 𝕕𝕠𝕖𝕤 𝕒 𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕓𝕚𝕒𝕟 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕒 𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕤 𝕘𝕦𝕪?! 𝕀 𝕥𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕕𝕖𝕗𝕚𝕟𝕚𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 𝕠𝕗 𝕝𝕖𝕤𝕓𝕚𝕒𝕟𝕚𝕤𝕞 𝕨𝕒𝕤 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕚𝕟𝕘 ℕ𝕆ℕ-𝕄𝔼ℕ/𝕎𝕆𝕄𝔼ℕ. 𝔸 𝕗𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨 𝕃𝔾𝔹𝕋+ 𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕠𝕟 𝕤𝕙𝕠𝕦𝕝𝕕 𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕥 𝕞𝕪 𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕥𝕪.

𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕝𝕤𝕠 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕒 𝕤𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 𝕘𝕦𝕪 𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕣𝕥 𝕔𝕣𝕦𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕟 𝕞𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕗𝕝𝕚𝕣𝕥 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕞𝕖. 𝕀 𝕣𝕖𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕕 𝕙𝕚𝕞 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕀 𝕒𝕞 ℕ𝕆𝕋 𝕒 𝕘𝕚𝕣𝕝 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕗𝕦𝕔𝕜𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕠𝕝𝕕 𝕞𝕖 𝕚𝕥 𝕕𝕠𝕖𝕤𝕟'𝕥 𝕞𝕒𝕥𝕥𝕖𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕔𝕒𝕦𝕤𝕖 "𝕀 𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕝𝕝 𝕙𝕒𝕧𝕖 𝕒𝕝𝕝 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕥𝕤".

𝕀'𝕧𝕖 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕟 𝕙𝕒𝕕 𝕒 𝕗𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕨 𝕥𝕣𝕒𝕟𝕤 𝕘𝕦𝕪 𝕣𝕖𝕗𝕦𝕤𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕦𝕤𝕖 𝕞𝕪 𝕡𝕣𝕖𝕗𝕖𝕣𝕣𝕖𝕕 𝕡𝕣𝕠𝕟𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕤 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕔𝕠𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕦𝕠𝕦𝕤𝕝𝕪 𝕥𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥 𝕞𝕖 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕒 𝕘𝕚𝕣𝕝.

𝕀 𝕒𝕞 𝕤𝕠 𝕕𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕡𝕖𝕠𝕡𝕝𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕣𝕠𝕞𝕒𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕔𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕠𝕣 𝕤𝕖𝕩𝕦𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕕 𝕚𝕟 𝕞𝕖 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕠𝕖𝕔𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕞𝕪 𝕘𝕖𝕟𝕕𝕖𝕣. ℍ𝕠𝕨 𝕔𝕒𝕟 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕞𝕖 𝕖𝕟𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕥𝕠 𝕤𝕝𝕚𝕕𝕖 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕪 𝔻𝕄𝕤, 𝕗𝕝𝕚𝕣𝕥 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕞𝕖 𝕠𝕣 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕟 𝕚𝕟𝕧𝕚𝕥𝕖 𝕞𝕖 𝕠𝕦𝕥, 𝕓𝕦𝕥 𝕟𝕠𝕥 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕞𝕖 𝕖𝕟𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕥 𝕞𝕖 𝕕𝕖𝕔𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕝𝕪, 𝕝𝕚𝕜𝕖 𝕒 𝕘𝕦𝕪. 𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕞𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕤 𝕟𝕠 𝕤𝕖𝕟𝕤𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕞𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕚𝕤 𝕛𝕦𝕤𝕥 𝕤𝕠 𝕖𝕩𝕙𝕒𝕦𝕤𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘.

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xX_Dyrk_Nyte_Xx

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You're young still
Most my friends are single and we are mid to late 20s
Only one of my friends is married but hes done with his degree, has a steady job, a home, and is in his 30s and he just got married last year.
It's more common to focus on work, money, and school first before you date. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years but im also an outlier we both are focused on school and work and understand that in our relationship. I think if you curb expectations for a relationship during developing years its easier to date, and if you can't, just put your head down and focus on school and work until you're finally settled and have the time to invest into a relationship. I work 32 hours a week and take 15 university credits, and my partner is a full time Uni student abroad, and I understand we dont have much time for each other and have healthy expectations. In my opinion at 18 you should be cultivating friendships, romantic and sexual stuff can wait.

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Yeah I understand that I am very unlikely to find “the one” that early in my life. Where I currently live most people start dating around the age of 15 and it is quite common to focus on relationships and experimenting in highschool and university (besides the final years of each) so that’s what I compare myself to.
I haven’t met the “curb expectations” phrase quite that often so my understanding may not be entirely correct.
I am pretty sure I curbed my expectations as I’m only expecting my idientity to be respected by those who claim to like me in one way or another and just over all polite/respectful treatment.

I’m trying to be patient, but with valentines coming up I’ve had relationships shoved down my throat at it can get reeeaaly frustrating.

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I suppose curb expectations was a bad way of saying what i meant
You deserve more than bare minimum. What I tried to express was maybe shift your focus. Love is something that just shows up one day. You can really go looking for it.

Never settle for less though no matter what. Its better to be single than to be disrespected in a dead end relationship

by xX_Dyrk_Nyte_Xx; 1739387581; Report

Ethaan..!!

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I'm so sorry all those shitty ppl did those things/treated you like that man. and if it makes you feel any better my whole friend group(including me) is alone too this valentines lmao

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