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i was chatting with my friends and friends of friends on a server and i started talking about trans people and how i dont like them (but i still repsect them) and than the trans girl read all those messages and was saying that i hate her because shes trans but than i told her "i dont like you bc your trans, i dislike you bc of your personallity".. i was being honest, which can be my downfall sometimes. and she of course didnt like that i said that and was crying about it. at the time, and still now, i think she overreacted with crying. i get shes upset but crying over an online person who she barely knows saying they dont like her..?
im not just saying that bc of her, i want people, everyone to be more strong and not cry when someone says something mean when you barely know them. or i hate seeing people canceled over one word, specifically the n word, its supposed to be an insult but i see the n word just like any other bad/negative word and if people take those words seriously from RANDOM PEOPLE i think their too sensitive..
anyway i definetely agree that i shouldve said my thoughts at a different day...
a couple hours after that she said she hopes i die and that kind of pissed me off and i see anyone who shits on u after u shit on them on accident a weak move? anyway i am not transphobic.
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Melody🏳️⚧️
2/10 ragebait
pegii!!
tbh i agree with you having your own opinions on trans people, but saying people who overreact towards the n word is kinda nuts ngl. Unless it wasn't hard r then I can get by that but hard r is understandable to react about.
lukaiko
volta pro reddit porra vsfd
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is this ragebait..?
Koltin
This post doesn't violate any rules, quit reporting it.
Just block the person, theres backlog we have to deal with.
sonicagain2011
this shit buns...
ExMachina
NTA
Luca
This gotta be rage bait xD
The Hat Man
person in real life: hey, what's up dude. /ref
oh also I forgot to say, the way op phrased not liking trans people is a generalization and you're making assumptions about every single trans person off of stereotypes in your head. they probably don't interact with trans people often.
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edit: trans girl probably cried because you dislike her community everyone like her with no basis, which is pretty nonsensical. you sure that not liking her "because of her personality" wasn't at all influenced by you disliking trans people?
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Stupidella
You can say your opinion when ever you want but if someone else hears it and says something about that's their problems because first of all from what i understand you weren't talking with her right? And also why would you "dislike" someone bc of the person they are? i mean if she did something to you that would be a good reason but hating on her bc she is trans is crazy.
AMBER
obsessed with "i am not transphobic" you literally said you don't like trans people. that's transphobia are you fucking stupid. i'm not even reading the rest of this but between that and the fact that you clearly think this is reddit, safe to say this is either bait or you're a waste of space and she was right to say absolutely all of that
right?! and like especially on her birthday making her cry is crazy. People need to understand that not everybody has a strong heart
by Stupidella; ; Report
I was wondering why there’s an AITAH thing here, yeah disliking trans ppl for being trans is transphobic, in this instance they didn’t hate the girl for being trans but basic human decency isn’t gonna give you a “and everyone in the bus clapped”
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Holster
this ain't reddit wtf u doing here
frrrr
by Raë ✮♡; ; Report
but frrrrrrrrrrr
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vivvie </3
"am i the asshole" tf this ain't reddit
fr
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healinprincess
youre allowed to have opinions and say what you think... you dont have to water it down to "be nice" if its something you dont actually believe in. people gotta stop being sensitive and caring so much what other people on internet say anyway, not your fault for making that person cry
sn0wflake_s0up
this is rage bait btw LOLLLL
DizzyDaisy
I mean, why would u write that anyway on the chat or wherever she can see it ON HER BDAY but whatever that is just not thoughtful of you thats it, u dont have to write ab i HOW MUCH u dontlik em, a ,,I dislike them" message would be enough, but still, ur not an asshole for disliking bc u could dislike them bc of how SOME OF THEM crave attetion by doing weird stuff but whatever
Joxvaldevazs
I would like to understand the reason you dont like trans people? Was it a question about sexual attraction, or a general question? I think that if you also say that you don't like their personality, and part of their personality is based on the gender they identify with, they might have took it like it was contradictory from you. In fact we all fit in some gender roles and part of our personality is based on it.
I agree that crying, when it's someone you don't know, is too much, but there's little context to your previous relationship you both had. I believe that you gotta take it with calm and talk to them again to try to fix the problem. She might be thinking that you're not only a transphobe but a person that is threatening her way of being.
LittleSassyFuzzita632
This was sooooo unnecessary like omg ur just being bad without reason
Melody
I don't even have to say, this was completely unnecessary. The best thing you can do is not being transphobic and keep your opinions to yourself.
Nicholas (music on prof🎧)
is this a blog that takes poorly received AITA reddit posts and reuploads them on spacehey? cause thats what i'm getting from this blog...
Either way, i'll engage. You are definitely the asshole...