What happened between me and AMBER(my bsf)

I will try to explain everything that happened...So me and Amber were best friends since childhood like since we were 5(I'm 13,she's 12) and one time Amber had a GF online from Germany(we're from Romania)...they were speaking in english and her parents took her phone and went through it only to go through my and hers chats(they personally never liked me for a reason) and they found out I speak english and I have a passion for the Russian language(I find it interesting myself based on a character I'm hyperfixated on but I never actually learnt russian.) and saw a live in russian,joined js to swear at them since I knew only swears and I thought it was funny so I told Amber...her parents saw that.They called my parents,said I'm not allowed to talk to Amber bc "both isolated themselves since then" and they were homophobic so bf we were bsfs they thought "oh maybe she dates her."....They told my mum to go through my conversations quickly to be sure if I dated "a russian" online(I never e-dated.) only to find nothing.Me and Amber tried to send real paper notes to each other by a girl from her class named Mary and one time she started avoiding talking w me..She told me she was never allowed to talk to me ever again.I waited and waited and waited until it got to TWO MONTHS...today,it was Amber's birthday.She told my classmate "Antonia" to give me a candy she handed her and tell me to come at the next break in the bathroom...She told me half of everything.Her mother had access to school cameras and her mother heard that my brother and dad swears(my brother is 5yo and swears only bc of learning it from ppl outside),that my mum was depressed and took pills for that and that my parents wanted to divorce one time...and they thought I was like them.That's why they always thought I was a "bad influence" over Amber.BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS.And her parents are perfectionists so they prefer Amber to be perfect.The good part is that they will give her back her phone AFTER they reset it and she wrote down in her journal my phone number so basically she can add me back.We decided our official friendship day is 14 of every month bc on 14 November we weren't allowed to talk to each other,and on Friday we will both dress elegant in waistcoats to be matching and meet in the school bathroom to talk again since in the bathroom is the only place where there aren't cameras...