MassageGravy

So in MassageGravy Sakura, Chelsey and another girl we will call Missy would stand up front and wait for potential customers and wait on guests to lead them in the back for their massage appointments. There was a lot of down time because I like mentioned before, this was in a poorer locations. 

 I also want to remind y'all I was in the process of divorce at the time.

So Sakura would ALWAYS be on again and off again with this boyfriend. She would come in one day crying and upset that he wanted to break up and that they were splitting and then later that day or the next day be all in love all over him. 

this wasn't my problem with her, even though this was annoying.

My main issue with this girl was her comparing her "break up" with my divorce. Usually this kind of thing is swept under the rug. But this was a thing everyday and she would even compare her dogs to the custody battle with my daughter and one day, I just snapped at her and lost my mind.

Sakura was freaking out about a GreatBuy credit card being maxed out. Her bf asked her to get a credit card under her name and maxed it out on video games and electronics and she was so lost. I don't why this bothered me so much, maybe it was because my ex tried to have be cosign on that same credit card and I just REFUSED to do that. Maybe it was because I always expected other people to smart about their creed and money, idk. but I lost my mind.

I looked at her and just went off, "Sakura are you serious? You really thought that getting a creed card under your name and handing that card over to this on again and off boyfriend a good idea. Like are you stupid? Why aren't you making him pay you back. You need to woman up and get that money from him and stop being a little bitch about this. MAKE HIM FUCKING PAY YOU BACK AND STOP RIDING HIS DICK!"

The looks I got from Sakura was in shock and horror. I don't think anyone has ever talked to her like that before and she was used to just complaining about her life to no end. I also went off about her comparing her "breakups" with my divorce. and told her all about herself. 

"Don't you dare ever compare your stupid ass petty bf shit with my REAL life grown folk shit. You are not going to court, you are not taking care of a child, you are not doing all the shit im doing. down you talk to me about your dumb shit again, cause I am not the one."

Chelsey had to basically pull me to the side and explain the whole "if you have nothing nice to day, then say nothing at all" but honestly I had to just tell her its day after day after day and I cant anymore. It was almost torture to listen to Sakura go on and on about this bf.

Sakura then tried to do this passive aggressive crap with me for months and I LOVED IT. the front of the location was so peaceful and quiet. I am the type of person that can literally sit in silence and be perfectly fine. and she was PISSED about that. I think that angered her even more that I wasn't bothered by the fact that I did not want to talk to her.

Fast forward the bf came to drop something of to her at work and.... this boy was just.... not impressive. he wasn't ugly... but he wasn't cute. it was like a plain Jane version of a boy.

He had some old jeans, regular smegular tshit, running shoes from maybe Walmart or something, unkept short Justin bebier hair (2012/2013). He honestly look like the type to play Pokemon cards with my younger brother. Like he'd fit in that group. 

I. could. not. believe it. all this fuss for this thing. I had to go back and laugh. I seen some okays men in my days but HE WAS NOTHING SPECIAL. 

she saw me leave to the back ands trying to start something about that. but I just had to leave because id be in the corner of the front end.... smirking at this shit. I knew I could keep a poker face. there is no way that boy had game in bed. there was no way.

Sakura eventually quit MassageGravy. she made it a huge deal and tried to act like it'll be the end of MassageGravy. Honestly it was a relief and she was quickly replaced. I look back at that place and realized that it was just a cesspool of toxic people. The biggest thing about these types of jobs is they are only remembered for a week after people leave, then life goes on.