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Maturity and understanding

It seems like it's almost everyday I see someone say someone else is weird for not liking the same things as them


Just this morning our teacher called us weird because we'd rather talk to eachother than look at cheerleaders


We make a big deal about "being mature" and we put a lot of pressure on young adults for "acting right" and these are important things 


But to me it all seems very hypothetical 

I only ever see older people telling young adults and teenagers to "grow up" when I know about a lot of immature and ungrown adults and older people myself

Maturity is not an age thing 

While yes you naturally are more mature at an older age than at a really young age but this is because being mature is something you learn 

You can see this in how teens who've never been taught to behave get spoiled 


We don't make that much of an effort to teach adults and older folk to behave when a lot of them definitely don't behave

Wether it is bully eachother or in some cases kids and just generally punching down


I think as a society we need to have this understanding that we are different people and that we have different things we like and ideas we enjoy 


Of course this isn't about human rights but about things like playing videogames or cosplaying 


We need to understand that sure someone might annoy you by looking a certain way but that doesn't make them wrong in dressing a certain way or looking a certain way

Someone might enjoy different games than you and It doesn't hurt you to not act a fool in the comment section whenever someone dresses up differently


We need to come together and understand that punching down or punching at all is kind of stupid

The only thing you can't enjoy is causing others needles pain 

And I know of a lot of people that are a pain in the ass (lol) 


And if you don't particularly like something that another person does you can always respectfully turn away 


We are allowed to enjoy different things as long as it doesn't hurt anyone and as long as it isn't forced on anyone without their will 


Maturity is understanding 

Maturity is kindness

And maturity is not being a piece of shit


Love y'all 🫶


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dadrockenthusiast

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i completely agree ab the maturity stuff. i have a blog about maturity and sex that i think you'd be into if u wanna check it out :p


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anyways now that tthats out the way lol

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and with this chance to talk more about your blog i will lol


another thing i feel like i've noticed is that in gay online spaces i mainly see yearning for that emotional connection and rarely is it about sexmaybe us lgbtq people are built different or my algorythm is cooked lol

but yeah loved your blog pretty cool stuff

i will say though i think there might be more types than just two types of sex and the one emotionless one is def one but i feel like it also can be such a complicated field a lot of the time so idunnorr
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i genuinely love ur blogs so much
made me want to tear up


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