daddy issues

i just really need to get this off of my chest and i don't really post on tt so i'm doing it here. I absolutely HATE how society looks at treats and romanticize daddy issues. Like it's not all listening to Lana Del Rey and wearing something low cut. It's not just liking older guys who smell like generational trauma. Sometimes it's you crying yourself to sleep because you just want to be loved. You spend your whole life trying to fill a void, trying to solve a problem that you didn't even cause. It's sitting in art class in second grade watching all the other kids make fathers day cards and the teacher says you can just color a picture. It's being too independent to ask for help when you're literally dying and simultaneously being codependent enough to stay in a situation that you know is going to ruin you all because you're constantly seeking approval from the wrong people.