Just a thought

I'm sensitive today, I don't know if it's something about my menstrual cycle or what. 

But, well... I was having an afternoon snack with my parents. 

We were talking about the pranks my brother and I used to get up to as kids, and I asked what was the most reckless thing I ever did.

Then my dad responded with something that...I'm not going to lie, it hurts me, because it was a bad day for me.

You see, what my dad answered was the day my parents discovered a private chat I had on Discord with my current boyfriend, At that time we were friends and we had 2 chats, one casual, Practically the evolution of our friendship and roleplay with ocs, and another on Discord which was a mix of a bit of everything but without passing around +18 type photos or immoral things.

But, if these are things that, out of context, look very bad.

So, they have a bad impression of my boyfriend, at that time my friend, Thinking he is a...a lot of BAD things

But NO is like that, he is a  shameless and too honest In his opinions, GOD HE'S AN SLYTHERIN HSKSHSKS

But I know him, I've known him since...2020 or 2021, I don't remember. we have been friends for many years and have been a couple for about 3 years, I would never choose an idiot as a partner

And I have a conflict about .. this and the situation...

On the one hand, I understand that my parents had a VERY BAD impression of him, my parents are conservative (not fanatics) and religious (again, not fanatics, just very devout), And I understand that you were scared by the BAD impression you had of my current boyfriend, I understand that perfectly, if I were a mother and out of context I saw a chat like that from someone I didn't know towards my child I would be scared  ngl 

But on the other hand...

I feel that they are very...stubborn in opening their minds if a situation seemed a certain way to them, the truth is that they never gave me a good opportunity to explain right the situation to them, To know him, to know the other side of the story...And it hurts me, as my parents' daughter, and as my boyfriend's friend and girlfriend...That they have a bad impression of him...it hurts

I understand, I made a big mistake too, and I didn't think much of it back then, I made a mistake by never telling them about it before, but they've always been very... with a "Sus" face On the topic of online friends, online games, online pages...or tastes different from the usual.

(For example, I once lost contact with 2 of my friends because they found out we liked Yaoi.Let's see...ah, well, when you're a pubescent you get carried away by hormones and don't think much, but it wasn't Too much for me to be banned me from talking to my friends.)

In short, I understand why they are upset, I understand that part, but I don't understand why they didn't give themselves the opportunity to know the other side of the story, and why I could never feel that security of Introducing my online friends...I admit I made a lot of mistakes When making some decisions and not introducing my friends to them

But this situation makes me sad...I wanted to vent