So, I just moved to Colorado a bit ago now, and I am in an apartment with five other girls. I get along with all of them except one girl, who, lucky me, I share a room with.
Here is some background info on my roommate:
-she's religious
-doesn't smell great
-kind of messy
-judgy
-tries to ask above everyone
-also tries to parent us
okay, now that has been said back to when I moved in...
i had just gotten my car shipped to Colorado so I was unloading the car and my roommate was judging how much stuff I had brought (I had 4-5 vacuumed sealed bags of clothes cause I'm here for a year) she kept commenting saying "that's a lot of stuff" and "you are not going to have room for all of that" NEWS FLASH I had room for all my stuff but anyway she was being annoyed as hell.
fast forward a bit...
I got a mini fridge for my room to put my drinks and etc. Well, she had stolen and drank almost my whole 24-pack of Diet dr pepper even tho she said "Oh you drink Diet I don't like Diet" like good fuck off but anyway I knew it was her that drank the soda because only 3 out of the 5 roommates were home and I was in the other 2 roommates room the whole night and I haven't even had a soda and ofc out of nowhere my roommate started taking the trash out. so we had a roommate meeting with everyone and I brought up the fact that my soda was disappearing I didn't point fingers (I SHOULD HAVE) but she had the audacity to say "Well it wasn't me cause I don't drink diet sodas" OKAY SO YOU ARE TELLING ME A GHOST JUST STARTED GULPING DOWN MY SODA YEAH OKAY after she said that I felt the blood boiling in my body but I bit my tongue to be nice since it was only my SECOND NIGHT THERE.
fast forward again
I was decorating MY side of the room and I have this Ouija board decoration so not even a real board and there was no game piece. well, I was putting up my horror metal posters and she started looking at everything and said "I'm fine with the horror stuff but I don't want you to put the Ouija board up" which I was upset about cause it was new and it is really cute but whatever it's fine but then she started to make comments on my horror picture that has an original piece of film from Jason vs Freddy and she kept making faces at it like if you have something to say just say it.
also, a fun fact she doesn't have sheets on her bed which pisses me off because...
1) that is nasty
2) that's how you get bed bugs
and I asked her why don't you have sheets on your bed she said that she doesn't have a twin bed at home and didn't wanna buy sheets for the bed cause of it. which is crazy cause she is here for a year also and in our lease the rule is we have to have sheets. so I had said something to the manager cause I don't want bugs or anything in our room and they didn't make her get sheets they just told her she would have to pay extra for the damage to the mattress which is like 50 dollars like wtf you are fine paying an extra 50 dollars but won't just buy sheets!
then after my roommate found out that I had talked to the manager she had the nerve to say "is it because of your bipolar you act out like this" WHICH MADE ME SNAP now I didn't snap at her I just walked out the door and went to the gym so good on me I guess BUT WHO SAYS THAT TO SOMEONE!
so after all that things still were not going that well and I don't feel comfortable in my room when she is there so I asked the manager if either she or I could be moved because of everything and I thought they would move her cause no one in the apartment really likes her and I get along with everyone else but when they asked her if she wanted to move she said no and when I found out the place I would be moved to was on the 3rd floor in a different building I didn't except because the apartment I'm in now is on the first floor so when I get ready to leave for school I just hop our fence and drive away and I didn't wanna lose that privilege.
so I declined the offer. later my roommate came out to talk to me and asked why I wanted to move and I told her "Because of you tbh you and I are not good roommates for each other because I feel a little uncomfortable with you reading the bible in the room because I see you look over at me and highlight stuff in your bible and it feels targeted also I just feel uncomfortable with religious stuff but I'm not going to tell you that you can't believe in what you wanna believe" and she responded with "I am really sorry you feel that way but I don't consider myself a religious person"
BULLSHIT YOU TOLD ME YOU DON'T CELEBRATE HALLOWEEN BECAUSE OF YOUR FAITH AND THAT YOU DON'T WATCH HORROR MOVIES BECAUSE OF IT ALSO
and then she went back to our room. later that night I went to go to bed and I entered our room and she said to me "So when are you moving I can help you move your stuff"
LIKE HELLO I NEVER SAID I WAS MOVING I SAID I MIGHT
now she gives me attitude all the time and will stare at me
am I going crazy or am I right to fell mad at my roommate?
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Bambam
I think you're the problem she sounds totally cool. Who uses sheets anyway! Ha.
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at least ik how to make a pfp
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karim
youre totally in the right to be mad omfg.. this is way worse than my last roommates and they were just really disgusting and messy but not total assholes.best thing i ever did was move out i hope you can do it too! living alone is the best if u can afford it ofc rent prices are ridiculous
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I wish I could move out and live alone (╥﹏╥)
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