my boyfriend won't teleport

so I am a lesbian who is dating a gay man (lavender relationship) and he won't teleport so we can hug. it is so mean :(

who else is in a lavender relationship because no one understands that we don't love each other in that way but in a platonic way, yet still day

btw I am dating out of the fact we can, it is not to hide our gayness simply to be not single